By Afraa Kori
Q&A with Gazette journalist Afraa Kori
What made you choose journalism as your career?
If you know me on a personal level, then you would know that I’ve always wanted to be a lawyer. But my professor and the Apex gang’s media coverage set me on a different path. During my years of uni, I wrote a research paper analysing the relationship between crime and media, in relation the Apex gang. Before the marks were released, my professor wanted to speak to me privately which I immediately thought I failed the assessment. Surprisingly he was overwhelmed with my writing, told me I got a high grade and I should consider journalism. Also as a Christian, I learnt that words can bring life and death. This motivated me as a journalist to use words that promotes healing and change, avoiding harmful narratives that target minorities.
How do you stay disciplined in your work?
I have been obsessed with Korean dramas since I was 13 years old and I grew up on tough love (e.g my parents used to confiscate my phone in my teens). So when I have news articles to write and I procrastinate, I ban myself from watching Korean dramas until I get work done. I got into the habit of punishing myself and it keeps me disciplined.
What’s something people don’t know about you?
By the age of 25, I earned 3 degrees but have never graduated because I wanted my cousin Jasmin to witness my graduation. Every time the graduation ceremony is near, she is fighting cancer in the hospital and can’t travel interstate to attend. While she lost her battle, it doesn’t feel right to celebrate without her so I refuse to attend a ceremony (she wouldn’t like this mindset).
What is something you wish you had?
When I look at Australian families, I see that they are blessed with grandparents. Unlike me who escaped a war torn country, I lost connection and communication with my grandparents. I missed out on hearing their words of wisdom and hearing stories of how they navigated this thing called life.
What is the most important life lesson you learn’t about yourself?
Don’t waste your years of youth! I learnt that you have to let some people and things go before you can go to the next level. It reminds me of my favourite quote – your elevation may require isolation.